Last night we had our first tough night without Jeremy. Well, I guess I should say it was the first tough night for me, not Magnolia and Furman. Both of them have seemed off since he left, particularly over the past few days. It's like they know something is wrong but just can't quite pinpoint it. Of course it probably doesn't help that we are all recovering from colds and that Furman is cutting teeth. Magnolia keeps asking if Daddy's going to be "there" (i.e., wherever we are talking about going) and will then say "he'll be back in just a minute." This must be the longest minute ever for her.
So. Last night my Mom (I thank God for the help she extends to our family) ate dinner with us and helped bathe Magnolia while I got Furman in bed. Once he was asleep, my Mom left, and I continued to read to Magnolia. Now this child will draw out our nighttime routine as long as possible. She always wants to read just one more book and will then return from her basket of books with a big smile on her face and our 238 page copy of Swiss Family Robinson in her hands. Her newest stalling technique is to say "I've gotta poop." I must admit this is very clever on her part, for what parent would prevent a child who has to poop from using the potty. So it was probably close to 8:45 before she got to bed and as we were praying, Furman began to stir. This is where chaos ensues.
I first tried to hide by Magnolia's bed (yes, I do realize how horrible this sounds), but eagle-eyes in the crib spotted me and began to wail. I carried him out of the room to try to soothe him and had stopped right inside of the kitchen when Furman spewed. 4 times. This sweet boy has the most sensitive stomach ever and would do this anytime I drank milk when I nursed him. He did it a little bit after a couple of bites of yogurt last weekend, but I didn't even think about this when I gave him mac and cheese for dinner last night. So here I am standing in the dark with nastiness all over the floor, my shirt/pants/leg, and the weeping baby in my arms and here comes Magnolia out of her room saying, what else, "I've gotta poop." I sat Furman down and stripped down, then stripped him down, then put him in the bathtub with Magnolia sitting next to us on the potty talking incessantly. I have never seen her so wound up that late at night!
After finally coercing Magnolia into bed around 9:30, I had to try to keep Furman content until I could give him more to eat. He passed out after 2 ounces of milk around 10:30 and I was finally able to clean up from supper, clean the floor, wash clothes, make Magnolia's lunch for school today, and get ready for bed. Furman woke up again at 1:30 and at 4:00 (more vomit). I rocked him until about 5:15 and then caught a quick nap before work.
The Lord sustained me on that sleep today and I made it through the day much more alert than I thought I would be. And through it all, He gave me joy. I cannot even begin to imagine life without Christ (and am so thankful that He gave me a husband who is willing to help with the night shift).
On other things Jeremy, he arrived in the northern part of Louisiana sometime Sunday only to leave Monday morning for the Cincinnati area (possibly northern Kentucky). Apparently the remnants of Ike hit hard up there and around 2 million customers were without power in Ohio. I'm wondering if this means he'll be home earlier since they are already so close (relatively speaking) to SC or if they'll head back out to TX after finishing there. Of course, Jeremy knows no more about the plans than I do so we'll have to wait and see.
*By the way, my apologies for all of the text, I didn't manage to capture any shots of the evening.